Hello style and beauty types 
I am bored with my hair as per usual and thinking of buying something to make it miraculously smooth, sleek, volumised, bouncy and in perfect condition. Because obviously these things all work just like they say in the ads 
My hair is blonde naturally and then I've bleached the life out of it due to a rash decision in the hairdresser when I turned 40. So it's not in great nick. It is quite thick though. Also wavy / curly but not nice defined ones more sort of all over the place with straight bits in some places and curly in others. When left to it's own devices it goes like people tried to do their hair in the 80s with lots of hairspray and intense backcombing.
I am after it just looking neat really, I'm not very good at blowdrying. Oh, it's a bit past shoulder-length.
So, is the big hair the thing for me? Or is that out of date now and there's some new thing that is better? Or for my hair do I need something else entirely?
Thanks 