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Quick & urgent question re:interview - must I wear a suit?

45 replies

Ifem · 01/09/2014 21:21

I hate suits.

Hard to find one that fits (am 5'11, looong legs, busty). Feel like a schoolgirl in trousers suits.

BUT...what the hell else to wear? Its for a management position so I HAVE too look smart. Not sure about suit dresses or pencil skirts either. Feel like a sexy secretary with my legs out and I want to appear serious.

Help!

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dun1urkin · 01/09/2014 21:24

How about a dress that isn't a suit dress? There's nothing wrong with 'having your legs out' if there isn't too much leg on the knee or just below and for gods sake please wear hosiery
I can't advise on suppliers as am a mere 5.5....

tethersend · 01/09/2014 21:25

What industry are you in?

I always err on the side of smart, so would definitely go for a suit if in doubt, although there will be countless people along in a minute to tell you a dress and cardigan is fine it's not Wink

What do you look like (size/colouring) and what's your budget?

dun1urkin · 01/09/2014 21:25

PS am in a senior management position myself, wear dresses all the time. Always taken seriously Grin

dun1urkin · 01/09/2014 21:26

Hahaha, just seen tethers post.
Just as she predicted

PS cardigans are not ok Wink

Ifem · 01/09/2014 21:29

Its education, school job, senior management

I'm a pale brunette. I really cant wear proper heels as am about 6'3 in them and totter like a drunk teenager.

Choices are limited as interview is on Thursday and very few shops cater for my height.

Urgh.

I think I'm going to have to go with a trouser suit. Browsing Next online

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500smiles · 01/09/2014 21:29

I've been told you should always dress smarter than those interviewing you, so yes a suit.

Next get slated on here, but I find their Tall range ok if you don't want to spend a fortune no a new suit

tethersend · 01/09/2014 21:30

Oh yes, dresses are fine as long as they are paired with a jacket- the cardigan is the offender Wink Grin

Brillenbar · 01/09/2014 21:30

No cardis are not okay. Dress and jacket, skirt and jacket or trousers and jacket. Jacket doesn't have to match, so doesn't have to be a "suit" ( but it probably should coordinate...).

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Ifem · 01/09/2014 21:32

Ok OK...suit it is.

Next have the sum total of two suits. One black, one grey. Grey suits me better but what too do I wear underneath?

God I am crap at this.

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dun1urkin · 01/09/2014 21:33

Oh dear. That is depressing.
I'm NHS, don't know if school dressing is similar?
My prejudices tell me there are lots of cardigans in schools... Grin

Ifem · 01/09/2014 21:33

And shoes. Gah! Would smart heeled black ankle boots (kitten heel) be OK underneath trousers?

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Ifem · 01/09/2014 21:34

Dun1urkin - uniform at my current level is dress and cardi Grin

This is for a senior role in a school that has 'high aspirations'

I think I need to be smart.

Also - hair - up or down? Its long. Up?

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tethersend · 01/09/2014 21:35

How about this jacket with this dress?

Ifem · 01/09/2014 21:36

tethers I actually have two dresses that are quite similar. But my blazers are a different shade of black (why is there more than one shade of black, goddamit?!)

Would I need heels?

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dun1urkin · 01/09/2014 21:37

Heh heh heh
Yes, judging by The Apprentice... Hmm

Dresses can have sleeves.
Shoes don't have to be high heels.

Get a suit if you are persuaded in that direction.

And when everyone tells you to wear a blouse underneath, do make sure it fits your boobs... Grin

tethersend · 01/09/2014 21:40

I'd do kitten heels or pointed flats

FamiliesShareGerms · 01/09/2014 21:40

Hair up

Dress on its own is smart if it has proper sleeves (rare)

I think shoes rather than boots, but it depends on the cut

Under your suit - a shirt would be smartest. Otherwise a top with a simple neck line and a necklace if you are comfortable with it ( ie won't fiddle with it)

dun1urkin · 01/09/2014 21:40

I know I'm fighting a losing battle here, but more than 50% of the female Chief Execs & Finance Directors I know wear dresses most of the time (only mention finance as that's my field)
Good luck for Thursday

TheVeryThing · 01/09/2014 21:44

I got a management job earlier this year and had the same dilemma (nothing to do with being too tall, unfortunately). I bought a very dull suit from Next, but in hindsight I wish I had gone for the dress & jacket option instead.

lockie1983 · 01/09/2014 21:48

I would say dress too. I have three rules: no bare armpits, no bare legs and no open toed shoes.

The problem with suits is that when they are cheap / cheap looking and / or I'll fitting they actually look very unprofessional.

I am in senior management and do lots of interviewing if that makes a difference.

Dresses can be smart and professional and show a bit of personality, which I don't think is a bad thing.

Good luck whatever you choose to wear

tethersend · 01/09/2014 21:48

Dresses are fine, IMO (am a teacher if that helps) just NO CARDIS Grin

Long Tall Sally doesn't have a great range, but I do like this dress and this jacket

standingonlego · 01/09/2014 21:48

Dress wearing financial services folk here too dun1urkin

Good luck for Thursday OP. If you are time short but close to a big shopping place a quick personal shopping appointment might be useful? I like families advice for what it;s worth.

Remember tidy nails.

The most important thing is to wear something you feel confident and comfortable in. Stand up straight, firm handshake, nice smile.

lockie1983 · 01/09/2014 21:49

Ill, clearly.

FamiliesShareGerms · 01/09/2014 22:07

This sort of dress

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