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How much do you spend on clothes if you're a professional, and consider yourself well-dressed?

168 replies

Elfina · 20/08/2014 11:45

I guess this follows on from my thread asking how anyone can afford to shop in stores like Boden. Our household income is good (70K, but live in London with a nursery aged child so cost of living high).

I realise that I can't remember the last time I bought something new for myself. I only ever buy from eBay. I don't go to the hairdresser (I do drink wine, so its not like I'm completely deprived). I'm 30, if that's relevant, and I don't like 'throw away' type fashion clothes (though like to look current and well turned out). I'm just curious to hear what well-dressed, professional people do! How much do you spend, and where do you spend it?

OP posts:
museumum · 20/08/2014 18:53

I don't buy "fashion forward" or "on trend" so my work clothes last a good few years. I probably buy about one pair of trousers, one dress, one jacket or coat and a handful of tops each year. That accumulates to a too full wardrobe :(
Pay about £50 for trousers, £50-£80 for shoes/boots, and maybe £75ish for a jacket.

museumum · 20/08/2014 18:56

Those who want to look professional but also be comfortable - come and join the "architect" thread in S&B.

sansucre · 20/08/2014 19:39

Not that I'm justifying my spending but I wanted to add that I only really buy natural fibres (my Zara leather look skirt is an exception, after all, a real white leather skirt would be insanely expensive and ruined in next to no time!) and shoes made from good leather. So with this in mind, if I buy a nice cashmere sweater and a pair of shoes, that's quite a huge chunk of the money gone. Handbags also tend to be expensive - my best buy was a Prada saddle bag purchased almost 15 years ago during their sale. It was reduced from £600 to £200 and it's still one of my favourite things ever. I tend to buy bags during the sales, so they're a rare purchase
and use them till they fall apart. That said, I do love cheap canvas shoulder bags too!
Additionally I'd rather buy something expensive and wear it all the time instead of lots of cheap pieces I get bored of quickly. I wish I'd have realised this much sooner.

This is a really interesting thread. Thank you OP for starting it!

Oblomov · 20/08/2014 19:45

Have bought some lovely pieces over the years.nit £300 though and not jackets, have never bought/needed a jacket. But find that recently the quality is just not the same.
Wonder whether I need to try different shops?

FreeButtonBee · 20/08/2014 19:48

Agree on bags" one of my best (non-work!) purchases was a red leather YSL clutch from the Harvey Nicks sale (first and only time I've been there!). It was about £200 but every evening do or wedding I go to, it is my first port of call. It does fine in the pub with jeans or at a black tie do and manages to survive drops and sitting in puddles of booze and all sorts. Have had it 5 years and can see it lasting 15 more. Obviously ludicrously expensive but cost per use? It will be pennies by the time I am done with it(I intend to spend a lot of my kids' teenage years going to nice places without them and with my little YSL number!)

MrsCampbellBlack · 20/08/2014 19:49

I never feel the need to justify my spending on here. I am hoping to get a chanel bag for christmas - and I really would prefer that to a bench Wink

PiratePanda · 20/08/2014 19:59

University lecturer, so I can get away with jeans if I wear a smart jacket.

My "uniform" is either jacket or cashmere/merino cardigan, nice quality t-shirt or fine knit (big boobs so look bad in blouses), jeans and when I lose the eternal baby weight I will buy decent trousers again and heels. I often wear silk scarves too. Alternatively I wear a dress with a jacket/cardigan.

I buy high end of the high street in the sales -- L K Bennett for dresses, John Smedley outlet for all my knits (with the occasional Gap 100% merino or uniqlo), Noa Noa for statement jackets and cotton shirts, East (yes, really!) for plain high quality t-shirts, and the odd thing from Jaeger, Whistles, Jigsaw (good for t-shirts and camis), Hobbs (tho quality very variable), etc.

Shoes I buy from L K Bennett in the sales or Charles Clinkard. I currently buy all my jeans from Gap because I've found a style that suits me and until I lose the weight I'm buggered if I'm going to spend money on jeans (mind you the quality is awful), T K Maxx if desperate.

Check out Noa Noa if you have one near you - they're a bit unusual, the quality is excellent and it's good VFM.

For slobbing around the house I favour Dorothy Perkins t-shirts - cheap and they last - and men's PJ bottoms from TK Maxx!

sansucre · 20/08/2014 20:02

Me too MrsCampbellBlack I'll be passing through Heathrow T4 just after Christmas and I'm already putting money aside just in case I give in to Chanel temptation!

Pastperfect · 20/08/2014 20:11

But mrsc a bench is so much more worthy... Wink

I'm a corporate lawyer, in house so no clients. Standard work outfit is a dress and heels, possibly with a statement neckless. I dress well (objectively speaking) but am neither confident or particularly inspiring.

Most of my dresses are LK Bennett, Reis, Jaeger or Michael Kors with the occasional stretch dress from M&S for travel.

For separates I favour ted baker, Marc Jacobs, monsoon, banana republic and whistles. I also like McQ where I get a good discount courtesy of MrP.

Having said that I probably have something from pretty much every hight st store.

I spend aprox £500 PCM and for that should probably have a better wardrobe but I'm a bit magpie-ish picking up things I like with no regard as to how or with what to wear them.

I do like a nice bag, mulberry and Celine are current favourites and those purchases push up the monthly spend.

MrsCampbellBlack · 20/08/2014 20:26

DD and I are off to see the Nutcracker in London in December, have already scoped out which Chanel shops are nearest the theatre - yes, I am that shallow Wink

BakerStreetSaxRift · 20/08/2014 21:00

Professional job, mostly office baseEgypt but occasional. External meetings, am 30.

Probably spend a couple of hundred per month.

I get skirts and coats in Karen Millen, they fit me well. Blazers from Reiss. Have a few dresses but mostly skirts and tops. Knitwear would usually be from Reiss or Whistles, tops and blouses from Reiss, KM, Mango, Oasis, and occasionally even Warehouse.

Woul spend about £80 on work shoes, egKurt Geiger or Dune type brands.

I used to spend more, but I'm now equally happy to buy these brands off EBay as in the shops, so I save a bit now.

RonaldMcDonald · 20/08/2014 21:21

I spend half of what I did as my job now requires that I look approachable and professional. Previously I had to look more aspirational

BakerStreetSaxRift · 20/08/2014 21:21

Wow, absolutely never, ever work in Egypt.

No idea where that came from Blush

traviata · 20/08/2014 21:42

suits from Austin Reed - spend about £250 each in the sale, they would be £400 or so at full price ; I buy one or two new each year, and they all get a lot of wear.

plus tops that range from BHS to boutique, but tend to be high street.

I like dresses but get too hot in them. I have some lighter summery dresses from M&S.

all very, very conservative, but that's the job.

mandy214 · 20/08/2014 21:46

Another solicitor. Interesting that most people have a different budget pre and post children. My eldest child is 9 now so its been a long time since I had a pre-children budget. I probably spend £50 a month on average. Maybe I wont spend anything for 2 or 3 months then spend say £200 on boots.

My office clothes are a few pre-baby items but have supplemented that over the years solely from a local dress agency and charity shops. I only buy good quality items (usually LK Bennett, Toast, MaxMara, Jigsaw, sometimes Coast, Planet) but they are obviously second hand so a fraction of the price. For casual clothes, I buy in the sales Zara, Mint Velvet etc.

Barbarasmum · 20/08/2014 22:19

Sweet dreams Mrs CB - you have made me laugh so much today!

RonaldMcDonald · 20/08/2014 23:07

I realise that the IT bag thing sounded twatish
but....I have no idea how or why I ended up buying so many of them and as an excuse I can pretend it must have been some form of illness/virus as I'm completely over it now and think I was certifiable at the time

AwesomeSuperTasty · 20/08/2014 23:26

Learning a lot from this thread! I am not a natural when it comes to clothes and I'm pretty sure I'm a style free zone. This, and because I can't bear shopping, means that I buy clothes sporadically throughout the year and I think I spend maybe £400 annually, £500 tops.

I've recently worked out a 'formula' for my wardrobe in an effort to save time getting dressed. To work (university lecturer) I wear dresses, or skinny jeans/ trousers with floaty silk tops. Flats and boots.

So spending goes like this: every Christmas sales period, I stock up on comptoir des cottoniers silk dresses. Throughout the year, I am on the look out for silk tops in tk maxx. That's about as much shopping as I do. bought a classic max mara coat two winters ago (also sales) for £250, so that will see me thorough about 10 winters I reckon! (I hope!) I buy quite expensive items, relatively speaking, but I still wear silk tops and dresses I bought 6-7 years ago. I try to buy items that don't date quickly. This is why I find labels like Comptoir des cotonniers and Nicole Fahri (from
Tk maxx, :) ) appealing.

msfreud · 21/08/2014 00:08

I'm 31 and working life is split between service manager in the charity sector and psychotherapist. I dress smart casual and try to stick to quality brands so that my clothes last several years. Don't follow trends as such. Lots of Boden, White Stuff, M&S, People Tree, TK Maxx random finds.

I think I spend around £150-200 pcm on average. Sometimes more, sometimes much less. I know I spend a lot on clothes but there are many other things I spend hardly anything on e.g. no car, don't really do expensive holidays.

BlameItOnTheBogey · 21/08/2014 02:40

I am late 30s and really, really need to look smart in my current job. I don't buy throughout the year. Instead I do one big shop a year on average and I use a personal shopper. I make a note before I go of what items I have that are still in good shape and what I need to make a complete wardrobe. I spend a lot in that one session but it gives me a complete wardrobe and I think, on balance, I spend less than shopping in dribs and drabs. I might might buy a pair of shoes in between but nothing else.

JapaneseMargaret · 21/08/2014 03:27

I work in the public sector.

I love clothes, trying on clothes, looking for clothes, clothes shopping, and buying new stuff. My style is feminine, elegant, classic.

However, I shop strictly high street. And probably cheaper end high Street, at that. I resent spending $$$$ on an item, that I can get for a fraction of the price at another shop.

I'm not in the UK anymore (and man, do I miss your shops - I buy online from the UK a fair amount), but would far rather spend time and money in the likes of, say, H&M, Zara, Mango, even Primark (albeit mainly for accessories) than the more expensive shops.

As I say, I work in the public sector. Most people here dress pretty causally. In fact, they very much dress down, and dress comfortably. Which is fine, but I don't get any enjoyment out of that. I definitely stick out, I'm practically the only one in heels.

My wardrobe is pretty extensive as a result. I mix and match a lot, and own way too many accessories. I do have clear outs reasonably regularly. I am 5'10" and at 40, now make a very concerted effort to stay slim. Probably the main area I am willing to stretch the purse strings is the hairdressers.

Bearleigh · 21/08/2014 04:00

MrBearleigh & I have had annual allowances for our personal expenditure (clothes books CDs) for the last 20 years. We have a joint account for everything so this is a way of giving us what we want without feeling guilty. Mine has always been more than his, because I 'need' to spend more on clothes (!!) and the annual amount has varied between £1,000 & £2,400 in that period. My spending in real terms has fallen as I no longer have to wear suits (I am an accountant) and with the making of clothes in China - silk blouses in Jaeger haven't changed in price in that period. The quality has fallen a bit but not that much.

I recently stopped working in the centre of London and as I can't pop out to the shops after work so easily I find I am spending far less - quel surprise... I used to be a bit of a label queen 20 years ago, but am now more relaxed about buying some clothes from the likes of Uniqlo, M&S, Jigsaw and Cos as well as Margaret Howell, Joseph, Agnès B, Max Mara. I do spend money on shoes from Russell & Bromley, & Emma Hope (though also now from Geox): not cheaper ones after Zara shoes gave me corns and the extra chiropody would have paid the difference for some R&B ones.

This year since moving offices I haven't spent all of my allowance which is amazing as I always used to overspend - MrB has always been very understanding. I have so many clothes now, it'll be a while before I have to buy anything, so have decided I will only buy really special things that make a difference. I am also that bit older too, so am not as interested in shopping as I was -I'd rather spend my Saturday with my family or gardening than shopping which is quite a change. I do still like being well-dressed, and getting a bargain in terms of something stylish and good quality, which is good value for whatever the money is. I do also keep things for a long time.

BiggerYellowTaxi · 21/08/2014 09:37

I'm still reading through all the responses but wanted to say Elfina I read your post and thought you sounded just like me then read a few posts down and realised we do the same job! I'm moving to a hospital job soon so want to look smarter from the start. I'm thinking of getting a personal shopper at House of Fraser to get a small capsule wardrobe. Either that or cheap clothes from H&M and Sainsburys Shock[more likely]

BlairWaldorfLovesShopping · 21/08/2014 10:20

Fascinating thread. Like Bearleigh I am an accountant with an allowance. I spend a lot of it on clothes and accessories - probably about £250 a month on average.

My office is smart casual (no suits) and I struggle with the balance between weekend clothes and work clothes - obviously buying weekend clothes is way more exciting, but I wear them less often so should spend less. It doesn't always work out this way!

Reading the thread has made me realise I don't have any shopping "rules" about spends per item, or a uniform, and buy stuff from a wide range of shops. In theory I would love to have a capsule wardrobe, but I know I would get bored. Even with work clothes I am always buying new things.

And yes, I do consider myself well dressed Wink - I love fashion, so for me that is the whole point. Being at work in an outfit I feel comfortable and stylish in makes me feel more relaxed, and like MrsCB, if an outfit's wrong then it's just distracting.

sansucre · 21/08/2014 10:31

Reading BlameItOnTheBogey's post made me think of my favourite client from my personal shopping client. She was a QC (I think she's a judge now) and she used to come to see my twice a year and spend £6000 - £8000 in one go. She wore a lot of McQueen suits as they 'always made her feel powerful in court', Miu Miu and Prada separates/shoes and Bottega Veneta bagsand loved Marc by Marc Jacobs coats for the weekend. I remember one time her calling me from chambers because she was looking at Net-a-Porter and wanted my opinion on something! (This was back when internet shopping was a new thing and any free moment she had at work she'd be online looking at clothes!

Apologies for the slight off topic post!

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