My sister is getting married in 6 weeks (13 June) and I am her matron of honour. Just over a week ago I found out that I was unexpectedly pregnant. Because it is unplanned I am not sure of my dates but think I am in my seventh week, so expect to be 3 months pregnant by the date of the wedding.
I really cannot remember how much I was showing at the same time last time around (7 years ago). It is now my second child, I'm 42 and I'm currently a size 12 (if that helps). But my tummy is already looking 'big' - eek!
It's a big wedding and she has a lot of bridesmaids so I thought I could wing it and make a decision closer to the time. I'm not really fussed about being a bridesmaid although she really wants me too (long story, had rows over it), and certainly not keen on being one with a visible bump. But what has really thrown me is that I remember now that I went to a wedding when pregnant the first time. I was only 4 months gone but had a visible bump even in a maxi dress (what I chose to wear).
This is what I am supposed to be wearing.
Hardly forgiving [hmmm]
Can someone with more clarity of thought than me help me through my options??