I tend to grow it all winter, then chop it off as soon as it warms up (like anytime soon) it is kind of long bob, slightly layered, collar length (I can't bare it any longer) short bobs like great but are too much work! I tried a Brazilian blow dry but was total waste of money. I tend to tie the front up as I don't like hair in my face.
Yes, yes and yes happy. Although I'm not actually mad on bobs (tendency to go bushy on me) I end up having a longish one every couple of years due to frustrated hair tantrum. I leave it too long between cuts as I know I'll invariably hate the result, so subsist in a state of semi-grown out beachy tousled layered cuts. Hair always ends up in messy bun when I'm working anyway (freelancer at home) as I can't think when it's down
, but I'm getting too old for the boho look 
I found a great stylist when I lived in York, but since I've been back in London (9 bloody years- sob) I've never found anyone close. Feeling a bit more optimistic now I have a list of salons to work through.