I wear under-wired, cantilevered, suspension-bridge engineered bras during the day (38F), and am desperate to find a comfortable, soft, non-under-wired bustenhalter for evenings and, with a bit of luck, to wear in bed to support my magnificent pair without carving the welts into my back and chest that my Fantasie confections do during the day time. I don't want to look like I've a fat pair of southerly-travelling buckets on my chest, but neither am I going for style; I just want comfortable support. Is this too much to ask for, or has anyone any suggestions that are not rude?