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Breastfeeding-friendly dress help, please!

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TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 09:36

I'm going to a wedding at the end of April.

DD2 will be 3 1/2 months old and we're BFing.

I won't know anyone there except the bride and groom (the groom is DH's best friend since school and DH is best man).

So I need something to wear.

I want sleeves.
Not fussy on the length of the dress. Apparently I have decent legs, so I suppose if I have to play to my strengths it would be them. But I'm always cold, so I'll want to wear tights.
I'm a squishy size 14. DD is 8 weeks now and I'm hoping to be a bit less squishy in a month or so, when I'll be shopping for the outfit.
I'm pale with red hair.

Go nuts :o

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TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 09:46

Not entirely sure why my stupid phone thinks that 'friendly' is 2 words... Hmm

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nevergoogle · 06/03/2014 09:50

Hmm, it's a tricky one isn't it.

I wear dresses lots and 3rd baby due in April.

Daytime dresses are easier I think.

Weddings, much trickier.

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 09:55

I've basically lived in the MN BFing staple of vest top under long-sleeved top since DD was born. I don't think that's going to cut it!

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nevergoogle · 06/03/2014 10:05

www.phase-eight.co.uk/fcp/categorylist/dresseswithsleeves/all?resetFilters=true

anything on there?

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 10:10

I love some of those (the heart print one, and the teal Shania one, for example), but how does one BF in a dress? Confused

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nevergoogle · 06/03/2014 10:12

If you go for a jersey wrap style you could wear a vest top underneath and the material should be stretchy enough to pull to the side.

Stokey · 06/03/2014 10:13

I went to a couple of weddings while breastfeeding - this site was quite good

Google breastfeeding dresses, quite a few come up.

nevergoogle · 06/03/2014 10:14

any others with a lower neck line?
or have it altered to include a lower neck line/buttons?

I have a wedding in August and will have the same problem.

Sunnysummer · 06/03/2014 10:17

Isabella Oliver is your friend! There are some specific breastfeeding dresses, unlike lots of the other ones that are maternity/feeding and made me look still pregnant at 3.5 months Smile

Or otherwise shirtwaisters or tea dresses can look nice and still be bfing friendly.

And spanx - not usually a huge fan, but in the first few months they are great!

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 10:19

Oh, I'll totally be wearing Spanx!

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ILoveWooly · 06/03/2014 10:25

My DSis wore THIS to her DD's christening the other week. It was gorgeous on. She wore it with (my!) nude suede courts and clutch.

She has since worn it with a cardi, brown boots and a slouchy bag for a laid back girly lunch too so plenty of use to be had.

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 10:41

That's lovely, Wooly. No sleeves, though :(

I like this, though. There are some lovely things on there -- thanks for pointing me towards it.

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TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 10:42

I'll look at Isabella Oliver, too. I hate the ones marketed as 'maternity AND breastfeeding dresses'. Like we haven't worn enough maternity clothes!

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zippyrainbowbrite · 06/03/2014 10:46

I've got some 'feed me mummy' vests which are good for breastfeeding in a normal but low cut or buttoned dress - they have a slit across the middle so you don't have to pull the whole vest up.

Sorry, can't link as on phone, but if you google them the website should come up!

ILoveWooly · 06/03/2014 10:50

I only wear dresses with sleeves too.
Babes with Babies and Seraphine are good websites too.

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 11:31

Thanks, all :)

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dinkystinky · 06/03/2014 11:35

Check out babeswithbabies.com - some lovely bf friendly dresses. I have their magic maxi and its great for special occasions.

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 11:38

Oooh, I love a maxi, despite only being 5'4" and feeling the weight of the MN Maxi Hate whenever I wear one :o

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whereisshe · 06/03/2014 11:52

The plungy Issa dress is bf friendly.

I'm 5'5 and I love a maxi. I've worn (a very nice Day Birger et Mikkelsen) one to a wedding before. So there Grin

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 11:55

That Issa one is gorgeous. Only goes up to a 12 though :(

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whereisshe · 06/03/2014 12:01

Hmm. That might just be what the outnet has left. Issa do go to 16 in their online store... not cheap at full price though! (And obviously also some princess connotations)

whereisshe · 06/03/2014 12:06

Emerald?

whereisshe · 06/03/2014 12:06

Oops, forget that, it's not the plungy one.

TobyLerone · 06/03/2014 12:58

That green is so beautiful. £300 is pushing it a bit for a dress I'm only going to wear once :(

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ILoveWooly · 06/03/2014 13:45

The green is gorgeous but not very BF friendly.

I am just back from town and Monsoon had a lovely 'Paityn' maxi dress in navy but sleeveless again.

I just bought this bargain for work lunches You could easily layer a vest for feeding.

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