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Does 'Black tie' always mean a long dress?

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LaVolcan · 03/01/2014 03:49

Just that. Or would I get away with mid-calf?

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PeppermintBark · 03/01/2014 03:55

I always wear cocktail dresses for Black tie; I thought that it was white tie where full length was always required.

DramaAlpaca · 03/01/2014 03:55

Yes, I think a mid-calf cocktail dress would be perfectly acceptable.

formerdiva · 03/01/2014 10:52

A good rule of thumb someone told me a long time ago is that if there's dancing then go long, otherwise it's not full length. In reality, though, there's usually a mixture of both at all black tie events, and I think mid-calf is a safe option.

LaVolcan · 03/01/2014 10:59

Thanks - this is helpful. I am not tall, so a standard mid calf dress would be longish on me anyway.

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NoComet · 03/01/2014 10:59

DHs work do's tend to more long than mid calf some years and slightly the other way when there were a lot of younger staff.

As far as I can see as long as it's defiantly and 'evening dress' and your not trying to get away with something you'd wear on holiday or to a wedding, it doesn't matter.

I always wear long dresses, but that's because I like the feel of them and because you can get away with comfortable kitten heeled sandals.

WhoNickedMyName · 03/01/2014 11:10

I went to a black tie event in December. I'd say there were maybe a handful of women in calf length dresses, the rest had long dresses on.

janmoomoo · 03/01/2014 11:16

My experience is generally the other way around - mostly cocktail or midcalf and just a few people in long.

Suppose it depends on the do. If it is a proper "ball" you might see more long. If it is more of a posh party probably more short.

scaevola · 03/01/2014 11:19

It's only white tie that means dresses have to be full length.

For black tie, it's more about the nature of the event.

WhoNickedMyName · 03/01/2014 11:41

Yeah the one I went to was a ball... The Princes Trust... champagne reception, sit down meal, charity auction and then dancing 'till the early hours.

I guess if it was canapes, drinks and dancing, like a work Christmas do or something, then maybe more women would have wore cocktail dresses.

As Scaevola says it's probably more about the nature of the event.

LaVolcan · 03/01/2014 11:48

It's a posh birthday party...but I suspect what I get will depend on what's in the shops.

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