DS aged 5 has noticed that my hair is always messy 
I have lots of strands which are shorter than the rest (they just seem to grow like that!) especially around the hairline. My hair also breaks easily when brushing which probably contributes to the short hairs problem.
Even when I brush it, it seems to stick together and tangle again instead of being nice and swishy. I've started using coconut oil (aiming to do once a week) and have tried Mythic oil with no great improvement. Elasticizer made no difference. I have a BBH which doesn't help much either.
Can anyone recommend a fix for me? don't mind spending a bit if it works.