Two years ago I started highlighting my mid-brown hair. It was lovely for the first year - golden highlights / sunkissed california type look. Could have the roots done every 3 months. All was fine.
Unfortunately it has evolved into a bleach-blonde. I don't know if this was inevitable or if I didn't manage the highlights properly (should have just done roots / t-zone rather than full head all the time) and I don't like it at all and don't want to spend £100 every 6 weeks on getting roots done but it feels like a fait accompli. Every time I mention this to the colourist they smile and nod but don't suggest any solutions apart from one - too just dye my roots caramel and only have a small number of highlights put in. That sounds awful.
Also, I want my hair to look more natural and use the natural colour - I haven't got any grey yet. I am too pale for full-on brown hair but I don't want to be a brassy blonde either.
At the moment I am just having roots and t-zone doing but I am worried about evolving into 'two tone' hair which is dark underneath. I like to wear my hair up so this isn't a solution.
My first solution is to change my colourist, which I am doing but what else? Should I dye it back brown and begin again? And how do I keep it 'sunkissed' and not let it go all Pat Butcher?
Thanks in advance.