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I need footwear help please - am going around in circles.

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 14/04/2013 14:26

I realise this is an age old question but I need help solving it once and for all. I have lived in ankle boots for the last couple of Autumn/Winters/Springs and I have ballet shoes etc. But what I need is something to wear with skinny jeans on days when I am going to be walking a lot so need a bit more cushioning than ballet flats - but when the calendar says it is no longer boot weather, but it is either too wet or not warm enough for sandals. Sorry for the many 'but's in that.

I thought I would get some Converse low tops but dp says they make me look like a child (not a teenager - a child, fgs). I thought they made my feet look big (I am only a size 4 but have skinny ankles). Shall I get some anyway? Or is there something else out there to solve this problem for me. I have already discounted wedge trainers (because they make me look as if I'm trying to be Victoria Beckham) and Superga (because they make me look like a Playschool presenter).

I like Converse on other people; just not sure about on me. Help please!

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BillStickersIsInnocent · 15/04/2013 06:30

How about these?

AmberNectarine · 15/04/2013 08:29

Take it the more sporty styles are out Remus?

higgle · 15/04/2013 10:40

The casual section of the Shoon site have lots of choice, although a few are rather lentil weaving beardy in style, these are nice. They also have Paul Gren high tops and wedge trainers that are more subtle than some other makes.

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 15/04/2013 16:34

Deffo no to the more sporty ones, Amber.

Am really sorry, all, but I don't like any of those recent links. I'm going to try the Converse on again and could maybe put an insole in to give a bit of padding??? Am hoping that the tan leather will look less childlike than the black and white ones.

I still hate shoes! Hopefully this thread has given other, less fussy people than me, some ideas. :)

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 15/04/2013 17:45

LOVE Clueless! :)

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Ujjayi · 15/04/2013 18:01

What about tan brogues? I have a pair from Dune which are way more comfortable than my Converse and they aren't the very masculine ones - they are neat and slender.

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 15/04/2013 18:07

Nope - brogues look ridiculous on me, like I'm some sort of aged, crazy aunt, cat-lady.

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Cantbelieveitsnotbutter · 15/04/2013 18:24

Same dilemma here too.
Loving all the suggestions

mewkins · 15/04/2013 18:25

Pf flyers? Think schuh do them.

LaTrucha · 15/04/2013 18:33

I think there are some options here. I don't usually like Josef Seibel, but those black patent ones are quite good I think.

LaTrucha · 15/04/2013 18:33

I quite like the white keds too.

BillStickersIsInnocent · 15/04/2013 19:11

Bet you'll hate these but Tom's?

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 15/04/2013 19:18

They are marginally less hideous than some of the other links on here, Bill - but no good for lots of walking, as too flat and too easily made soggy in the rain!

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QOD · 15/04/2013 19:20

If you're going round in circles you've probably got two left shoes

Helpful.

auntpetunia · 15/04/2013 19:50

Have loved all the links i have opened, am having a similar dilemma am liking the moccasins a lot, maybe not the price though. going to look through all the links now see if you've found me my ideal shoes.

HousewifeFromHeaven · 18/04/2013 22:22

love these boots

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 18/04/2013 22:27

Those boots are really nice (and a good price too!) but I don't want boots - I have boots. Love suede too but no good in the rain.

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Sonotkylie · 20/04/2013 10:05

I have some fitflop leather 'trainers' (I hate trainers, these look more like converse etc low tops). Insanely comfy. I have a muted gold y colour but they are a year old. I don't think they look too sports shoe and they aren't covered in logos. Good for the job without being too offensive.

Chandon · 20/04/2013 10:18

I wear the gabor ballet flats, the ones with the sort-of-bow, as my everyday shoe, even can do hours of city walking in them! They offer support and have a cushioned sole, yet do not look too " solid"

A rare find imo.

Rieker does lots of horrid shoes, but occasionally have a gem where comfort meets style.

Converse, I hate, it gives you big flappy duck feet imo, and not even that comfy.

friendlymum67 · 20/04/2013 14:15

OP, I am so glad you shared your dilemma on here! I am in exactly the same situation. Will watch this thread with interest in the hope someone comes up with the almost perfect solution!

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 20/04/2013 15:53

Thanks for all the new comments. I have some v nice Gabor sandals, but the ballet flats aren't the sort of thing I'm after. My quest continues!

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nellyjelly · 20/04/2013 20:03

What about some old skool type trainers such as Puma or Adidas? Comfy and as in suede more waterproof than canvas.