Have recently got back in the saddle after 5 years of no sex, with a much younger man as a one off. He wanted me to dress up for him in stockings, which I did, and we both enjoyed it. But, it was a faff with the suspender belt. I watched Burlesque a couple of days ago, and the girls looked fab in hold ups, but, the last time I tried hold ups (years ago) they cut into my thighs and made them look fat (they are a bit muscly rather than fat, certainly not slim). Has anyone got recommendations for ones which will stay up without making my legs look like I am wearing elastic bands?