I have long hair with a slight wave to it - quite nice but with no 'style' of it's owns. It just hangs there in curtains or I stick it up in a pony tail. Am tempted to go for some kind of bob between chin and shoulder length, but what kind? Which are the non-frumpy kind? I'm not a fan of the Victoria Beckham-esque 'shaggy at the back' look - it's a bit dated isn't it? In my early 30s by the way, if thats relevant.