Corsets and control pants

[Rhubarbgarden]

I'm going to a wedding in a couple of weeks time and it'll be full of younger, slimmer, very fashionable girls. I used to be able to keep my end up pretty well but I had a second baby three months ago, so everything is just flopping around. No time to lose much weight so I need to resort to serious underwear cheating. Any recommendations? I'm thinking a full-on corset might do the job and be fun too.

Get yourself to M and S and get the cycling short looking ones - they work wonders .

Hair blow dried if you can.

Bit of a tan if you're into them.

You will look and feel fab - have fun

I went to a wedding a couple of weeks ago and wore spanx under my dress . It did wonders . Went from under my bra to my tighs. Really pleased with some of the photos . I have c section belly and new back fat that won't go.

Thighs

I have a control slip from debenhams. It's a dress which starts from under your bra with bra straps to hold it up, and because it starts under your bra, it does.'t flatten your boobs. Every pair of control pants I've ever worn has rolled down and made a terrible shape, and h

Proper steel boned corsets are fab, but they are very obvious - I've only ever worn them as a top and I don't see how they would work under something unless it was something that was styled to be worn with a corset.

Hmm that's a good point tabulahrasa. The dress I've got to wear is a floaty thing so I guess it would be rather obvious.

Spanx and M&S on the list to investigate though. Thanks for all the suggestions and the encouragement - back fat here too; what a bugger.

Oh and Debenhams to check out too - missed that - a slip could work