Yes, that's what I see in the mirror every morning if I can't be bothered to do anything with my hair. However mine is lankier and frizzier, but definitely very unruly.
In order to tame it I could BBH it, that works but takes too long for every day so only happens once in a blue moon. If I want to make it look more groomed but still casual, I turn my head upside down, squirt in a bit of volumiser, blast with the hairdryer, then flip it back over, define the ends with coconut oil, comb the top layer lightly down as far as my ears) with a fine comb and spray it with hairspray to flatten the flyaways. I don't use any products with silicones in, that helps as well I think.
If it's any consolation I could never achieve a smooth neat bob in a million years and have always wanted to. Even when I straighten it it all bounces back by the next day.