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What to wear to a Catholic funeral?

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EclecticShock · 12/05/2012 19:59

I haven't been to a Catholic funeral before. What is acceptable attire?

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Happydogsaddog · 12/05/2012 20:02

They totally go in for neons and psychadelic patterns Wink

AThingInYourLife · 12/05/2012 20:02

Smart dress, muted colours.

SecretNutellaFix · 12/05/2012 20:03

Same as for a normal funeral. Usually darker, sombre colours, unless something particular has been asked for e.g a specific colour.

Northey · 12/05/2012 20:04

Smart trousers+top in muted colours also acceptable in my experience.

TheresaMayHaveaBiscuit · 12/05/2012 20:05

Ignore Happydogsaddog she's teasing you. My family are Catholic so I can say with authority that full Victorian mourning dress is required for Catholic funerals.

EclecticShock · 12/05/2012 20:05

Ok so black suit or is a dress better?

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Springforward · 12/05/2012 20:06

The same as you would wear to any other funeral.

Springforward · 12/05/2012 20:08

Whichever you feel most comfortable in. To my DM's I wore a black dress and a plum jacket.

EclecticShock · 12/05/2012 20:10

Thanks :)

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Happydogsaddog · 12/05/2012 20:14

Ahh Theresa you ruined the fun.
Sorry OP, yes I am Catholic and they do get quite sniffy, so something dark and conservative. White blouse, black suit and courts are usually a safe bet, day make-up and neat hair, nothing overbearing on the perfume front

ChablisLover · 12/05/2012 20:45

Yes. Whatever u would wear to a normal funeral. Smart and sombre. Usually dark colours. Best with a funeral to over dress rather than under dress .smart trousers, top and jacket or dress and jacket

AThingInYourLife · 12/05/2012 20:47

Black suit is fine. Dress fine too.

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Springforward · 12/05/2012 20:55

Thinking back, I went quite glam to DM's funeral - good pair of heels, hair put up by hairdresser, strong waterproof make up - because she always said she liked to see me that way and not dressed down. Bit silly I guess, but felt right to me.

EclecticShock · 12/05/2012 20:58

It's my FIL funeral, just want to make sure I don't show DP up.

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MrsLettuce · 12/05/2012 21:04

Sorry for your loss Eclectic.

I'd go very conservative - black dress, jacket & shoes. Or maybe black blouse and skirt.

Do youu have suitable stuff?

fedupworking · 12/05/2012 21:10

Orange lol

SauvignonBlanche · 12/05/2012 21:12

Sorry for your loss. Black not necessary, can be seen as ostentatious, go for muted colours.

wigglesrock · 12/05/2012 21:14

What you would wear to a job interview, no need for black or dress - trousers are fine.

MrsLettuce · 12/05/2012 21:17

Yes, I agree. as a younger woman trouser are fine too. Did mean to put that.

WipsGlitter · 12/05/2012 21:18

I'm catholic and id say black, no hat.

Ostentatious???? Never heard that. Confused

drywhiteplease · 12/05/2012 21:20

Oh so sorry op...realise I may have been insensitive.Thanks
Wear whatever you would to any funeral, sedate, dark colours, conservative.
Really apologise.

TheWoollybacksWife · 12/05/2012 21:23

I agree with MrsLettuce. Definitely wear something conservative. Outfits in mainly black, dark grey or navy blue are fine. It can be quite difficult to find something suitable if the weather is warm and sunny. If you are part of the main funeral party then you will feel as if people notice what you are wearing more than if you were on the outskirts IYSWIM.

For my dad's and my grandma's funerals I wore a black skirt, white blouse and black jacket with a dark coat over (winter funerals). For DH's aunt I wore a black and grey patterned dress with a black jacket (summer time).

Sorry for your loss.

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