PinkPepper - thanks, H&M is brilliant for stuff like that. There isn't a branch in my town (am in Rep. of Ireland) but it looks like they may now ship to ROI so I must try them again...
I'mCovered, jocescar, monkeysmama- yes so far Primark (or Penneys as it's known in ROI) has served me really well; I've bought a couple of the tops you all mention and also some lingerie spanx-type slips which have unfastenable straps and are pretty - great for under skirts/dresses.
Pipinella - never heard of that site, how helpful! Thanks!
You know, I think I'm just trying to figure out the whole juggling bra/nursing vest/nursing pads + having boobs thing! I'm normally an A cup but I'd say closer to a C now, and I'm finding my boobs chafe against everything I wear against them. I would much rather not wear a bra but I need something to hold the pads in place! I hope the feeling will settle in a few weeks.
Still on the hunt for a nice, fashionable, longline, WARM cardigan though- absolutely agree it doesn't have to be bf-specific (in fact I don't want it to be), but sadly my mum has been right all these years and there's just 'not enough warmth' in the primark ones for me right now :(
Have had a quick trawl through the usual suspects online - ASOS, TopShop, River Island etc, but can't find anything I really love. Typical - there were loads in the shops all those months I was pregnant, but I was trying to hold off buying regular clothing then.
Thanks so much for your help!