(Step)Mother of the Groom - can I get away with this dress?

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I'm only 38 but feel ancient as my stepson is getting married this summer.

Could I get away with this dress or is it too prom/bridesmaid-y?

I'm also going to a 50s themed wedding so it would do for both...

eek I think it might be a little too boufant for mother of the bride garb imo,sorry

ffs step mother of the groom

Sorry,but I think it is too bridesmaidey.

LOVE it...

Team with teal heels and clutch - don't try and match!

too flouncy.

I love it! if you've got the body, wear it!

I love it too. Fab. Keep the rest of you simple and groomed. Stunning.

Which colours were you thinking of?

Dammit, I thought it might be a bit much but I do so love it.

If not for SM of the Groom, could I wear it as a guest to a 50s themed wedding or would I just look like a wannabe bridesmaid? That means I would have to buy two new dresses :o

(PS it comes in all different colours, was actually thinking of teal Madammecholet).

Advice, including dissenting voices much appreciated as I have track record of fashion disasters...

Is that your usual style? If so then I think its fine.

But if its a bit of a departure then I'd be wary but depends how well you get on with your SS, his mother and the bride's mother . . . Could you show it to the bride and get her reaction perhaps?

If its going to be a tricksy situation then I'd personally go for a 'safer' option.

x post HettyKet - Teal or blue - I try to avoid pastels...

Never met SS's mother although there is no antagonism. She has a distinctive style apparently and is going for an ethnic / fringed / multicoloured outfit.

Bride's mother - no idea but suspect it will be quite traditional / safe

Bride gave it the thumbs up but need to ensure she is not just being nice to me!

I think asking the bride would be a nice touch then you're not worrying just before the day. I think as others had said the key is in the colour and a darker colour like the teal would flip it over into acceptable.

But I'd check to be sure though.

Fabulous dress by the way. Very envious!

It won't look bridesmaidy at all in a darker colour. Teal would be great. I like the look of the Aubergine, Truffle, Navy and Grey too. Shame you can only order 3 swatches.

Go for it!

Sorry x post. Given bride has already given her blessing I'd go ahead and you'll look fabulous!

Have a great day

Excellent - thanks everyone, much appreciated.

Am going to order colour swatches - teal, emerald green and aubergine.