i''m 22, Since having my DD I dont really put myself in any priority to look good anymore. I wouldnt say i've let myself go as I have gone back to my usual weight (actually a bit smaller) but its my thoughts on my wardrobe, and hair etc. I just feel like I've lost my mojo in style. which is a shame because i love clothes, looking and feeling good. oh yeah i love my cosy days but i mean i do try, but when i look in the shops i think, i would love that, o to wear that, but i dont really go anywhere. being a mum is first, and i absolutely love it. i love it so much that am 21 weeks pregnant with my 2nd.
Once this beautiful baby is born, i plan on going to a fitness/post pregnancy class once a week just do to something for me, and arrange a night with the girls, meal or something. I just want to think "you can put a bit of lippy on, or sprouse your hair up a bit without feeling like i'm being selfish! or dress in other things other than tops, jeans, or leggings on a daily basis!
I just want to be able to eventually get back into a frame of mind where i think, that DRESS would look lovely, even if its just a meal with the girls (wont be drinking as im breastfeeding this next one too) and to learn to treat myself, and not just DD & DP ;)
So sorry for my boring rant!