We've been invited to a relative's 60th birthday at the beginning of January. We'll be staying at the hotel where the party is being held, so no issues re travelling through snow and ice in my party frock - but still I'm not sure what to wear. I don't want to look 'Christmassy' (it'll be 7th Jan). Also this is likely to be quite a smart do (champagne reception, instructions for helicopters included in the 'how to get there' part of the invite...) - I have a frock bought for a recent wedding - but I feel it's too 'weddingy'.
First question - dress or trousers?
I'm 51, size 10, 5'8", can't wear high heels. Budget isn't tight, but hey, it's just after Christmas so lets not go crazy.