I am mixed heritage with naturally very thick and curly hair, though the strands are very soft fine IYSWIM. I want to start a no-poo regime as pregnancy has really dried out my hair and it seems any shampoo is a no go as they seem to be more damaging than ever before.
I want to clarify my hair but I don't know if I should be doing this before the wash itself or at the end of the wash or both 
Also, I have 3b hair (thick and curly corkscrew hair with fine strands) so can anyone recommend a good leave in conditioner or other product? I used to use the old Sunsilk curl cream years ago but since they stopped selling it, I have been at a loss to find a new product. I don't like serums, mouse's or gels because they all weigh down my hair so use my normal conditioner daily, but it is obviously not designed to be a leave in product so doesn't work that well.