Whats the secret to having these 2 at the same time, i love not having to hold onto my bag constantly (im extra clumsy so always end up dropping them and ruining them) messenger bags are ideal as both my hands are free, but when i wear it across my body it just sits in the middle of my boobs pulling back whatever top i have on and making me look like im wearing a madonna type pointy bra! i think i look fab and all is ok till i catch sight of myself in a shop window or mirror and then have to re arrange everything, is there a way to have both or do i just give up?