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What constitutes being well-groomed?

21 replies

LaLaLaLayla · 05/09/2011 03:33

Hi, I just wondered what components make a well-groomed person. What does everybody think? I have become a bit of a bag lady over the past year or so and now I have just got a very corporate job and need to transform myself.

Any ideas? Thanks.

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mirai · 05/09/2011 03:43

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PattySimcox · 05/09/2011 08:16

Agree with mirai but would add a not too made up face

LaLaLaLayla · 05/09/2011 10:59

Thanks. I have bought some clothes from LK Bennett. And some high shoes. I am having my hair done on Saturday. I just need to think about extras. I am thinking:

Make-up
Hair done nicely
Nice watch (this will have to wait)
Nails (are acrylics a bit naff or still considered OK?)
Good quality handbag. Or a fake!
Nice earrings (again, this will have to wait, but something to aim for)
Some subtle fake tan so I look a bit younger and healthier.

Thanks for your help, girls - it is much appreciated Smile

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whoneedssleepanyway · 05/09/2011 11:02

hair, nails (no chips), make-up, good quality accessories (bags, shoes, jewellery) and clean nicely ironed clothes (not going through the laundry basket to find the cleanest looking thing as you are in a panic and are behind on the washing Blush)

whoneedssleepanyway · 05/09/2011 11:02

I would go for gel nails over acrylics any day

MissBeehiving · 05/09/2011 11:17

I think well conditioned hair is pretty key too.

chandellina · 05/09/2011 11:59

neatly shaped and brushed eyebrows

TrillianAstra · 05/09/2011 12:09

There's no empirical measurement of well-groomed, it is an impression and a feeling and an opinion.

LaLaLaLayla · 05/09/2011 12:36

Good tips on the eyebrows and hair. Have beauty and hair appointments this week. So, gel nails are still OK, then?

Oh, another thing... good sunglasses? Might try and get some Victoria Beckham ones when I get paid.

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Tutti · 05/09/2011 16:41

lala

Are you still in dubai? if so check out Sacoor brothers for shirts -very nice!

Have seen a few 'corporatey' types in them -some even in smart tailored shorts and a 'sacoor' shirt and looks very smart!

wicketkeeper · 05/09/2011 22:10

Stand up straight. Do it now. Stand in front of a mirror and practice. Even sweat pants look better if you stand up straight. (But nothing can help you if you wear 3/4 length trousers and crocs...)

LaLaLaLayla · 06/09/2011 04:16

Thanks Tutti. Will try to find Sacoor Brothers.

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KaraToytown · 06/09/2011 09:57

I saw an immaculately groomed woman yesterday - shame she stank to high heaven. Washing obviously wasn't part of her routine.

LaLaLaLayla · 06/09/2011 10:48

Really Kara? How odd Grin

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Ifancyashandy · 06/09/2011 12:24

Natural nails (sorry - any fake nails look horrible). Shorter if painted dark.
Good haircut / well conditioned / brushed
NOT a fake handbag! Rather a good quality cheaper leather bag than a fake.
Threaded eyebrows
Natural make up during day / unchapped lips / non smudged eyeliner or mascara
Shoes that have been heeled / polished
Not too much jewellery

A big smile!

LaLaLaLayla · 06/09/2011 12:58

Could you recommend a handbag Ifancyashandy? I want something smart. And dark brown. Not Mulberry.

Thanks Smile

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Ifancyashandy · 06/09/2011 14:46

What's your price bracket?

LaLaLaLayla · 06/09/2011 14:47

Probably GBP 500 max.

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Ifancyashandy · 06/09/2011 14:56

jaeger do lovely ones

Ifancyashandy · 06/09/2011 15:03

And look at Marc by Marc Jacobs. And Anyang Hydmarch. And Michael Korrs.

higgle · 06/09/2011 15:09

CAn a vegetarian who doesn't buy leather not look well groomed? Why should a dead animal draped over your arm look so wonderful?

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