Ah.
I have just been diagnosed as a Bright Spring (saw you on my thread I think)
I bought a nice lip gloss today - its a Loreal Glamshine fresh in Fresh Grenadine. Its a pinky corally job. Might be too pink for you but its neither pure pink nor coral so might be worth slapping some on in boots and seeing how you go.
Fine for summer, but I do wonder about winter because a lot of the shades we suit do seem to be "splashy" and reminicent of, well, Spring!!!
If you don't suit pink, hate orange, and can't do brown/nude, that leaves red. Have you found your perfect red yet? My best red was "Brick" of the House of Colour range, on Saturday during my draping, available here though I'd imagine you don't want to buy blind.
But that might be the answer - finding your best red and just going all or nothing.
Have you seen the Facebook discussions on 12 blueprints? Can't remember if it was you who mentioned that page on my thread, apologies if it was, and apologies to the person who did if it wasn't, as I can't remember who it was. I haven't had a chance to devour it and jot down all their recomendations to try (they are mostly Mac I think so easily to get, though sometimes they mention a Covergirl one which isn't) so that might be worth a look.
But I've lots of shopping and testing to do so each time I find something I like, I will bump this page and tell all! 