PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me solve my dress crisis!

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It's my 30th birthday in a couple of weeks time. I have brought loads of dresses and currently have 4 in reserve to choose from but none of them are perfect. So far I have

cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=180622920619&ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT this. The underskirt is tight and I keep having to tug it down - I'm also worried the although the draped side of the dress looks lovely the side view from the other side is lots and lots of my big hairy thigh!

www.asos.com/Forever-Unique/Forever-Unique-Embellished-Shoulder-Drape-Chiffon-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=1375404&cid=8624&sh=0&pge=0&pgesize=-1&sort=-1&clr=Magenta this which is my best friends fav. It sort of drowns me a bit - I've re-ordered a size smaller to see if that helps. I'm not sure about teh jewelled shoulder - it's sort of green in the light?!?!?! No idea what accessories to go with it etc!

www.bcbg.com/product/index.jsp?productId=11147537&cp=4213681.2769162.2768993&view=all&parentPage=family this which is devine from the front but I don't like the bit around the bottom (I have a fat bum and this makes it look even fatter) and it is very see thru!

And another dress which I can't find online.

I'm fancy something a bit grecian / toga ish but am open to ideas.

Can anyone please help?

you have great taste i love them all, not much help sorry.

But apparently lipsy is only for 19 year old slags, although personally i think that is gorgeous.

The white one i think might be my fave, and there is nothing wrong with a bit of junk in the trunk, big bums are good.

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I'm using your 'a bit grecian / toga ish' as my inspiration.

I know that this is long and all your links are short, but think this could be very elegant with some amazing long earrings to dress it up and high heels.

This is a similar style in a shorter length All saints

Completely different but made me think of the Oscars some bling

Thanks Dirtybit - I've actually already ordered a couple of those dresses. I quite like the phase eight one - haven't seen it before.

Thanks for the direction to All Saints - there are a couple of dresses on there that might be suitable so I'll have to order them to try out!