I have similar skin problems to you OP and can get so frustrated when my poor skin gets itchy, sore and unsightly
The skin around my eyes and lips had been awful the last 2-3 weeks - very red and angry, itchy, flakey, very uncomfortable and very unslightly
I too had resorted to using steroid cream on my face...
I recently started using A-Derma Avione Rhealba products and they are great. I bought them in the big Boots in Glasgow - I've searched the Boots website to try and link them but they're not on their website!
I still use simple shower gel to wash my underarms and nether regions and then massage the A-Derma Avione Rhealba Exomega Cleansing Oil all over the rest of my body, even my face, before rinsing well. I then pat dry and use A-Derma Avione Rhealba Epitheliale H.A. on the problem flakey areas, Simple moisturiser on the rest of my face and Aveeno Moisturisng Creamy Oil for the rest of my body. I have to do this every day to keep my skin bearable which is a pain but needs must!
Three areas of my right hand can get unbearbably sore, flakey and at worst have open sores with painful hacks that result in me being unable to bend my fingers
The cold weather makes it worse so this is not a good of year for me! My lovely dermatologist told me to apply steroid cream to the affected areas before going to bed and to then wrap little squares of cling film around my finger to prevent the cream from rubbing off in bed. This works a treat and speeds up the repair time massively. I cannot recommend this more :)
This has turned into a bit of an essay
My problem skin can get me down so if this helps just one person then that can only be a good thing :)