Vicbar, I know, you're right, but it's hard to hold the thought isn't it? I went out with my DH at the weekend, made an effort with my hair, slapped on some makeup, wore the boots (the only heels I can still walk properly in!) but a niceish top and some jewelry and my DH was quite wowed by me! Took me by suprise cos am so used to being covered in sick, traipsing around with kids, travel-bloody-potty-the-mother-of-all accessories, and not even noticing myself in the mirror.
I have kept reminding myself of my DH's reaction all week.
Size 8 you say? I was born a size 14 