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Horrible hair

31 replies

sky21 · 06/10/2010 12:35

Help! I have long layered hair that is extremely thick, coarse and frizzy. I just cannot seem to find a product to tame it. Any ideas?

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Lovesdogsandcats · 08/10/2010 11:24

honestly, can no one mention race, without someone jumping on them?!

Unwind · 10/10/2010 00:19

Her being Jewish may be relevant to hair type, seeing as it is an ethno-religion that is associated with very curly hair. Religious practices, not so much, though the wigs would solve the OP's problem Grin

Ethnicity is relevant here as the OP describes her hair as "extremely thick, coarse and frizzy"

In the UK, curly hair is usually not coarse, though it may be thick and frizzy. Different hair type might mean different advice.

mathanxiety · 10/10/2010 08:05

Curly hair is usually quite fine and breaks easily.

The Curly Girl book by Lorraine Massey has great advice for all sorts of curls no matter what the ethnicity/race.

Mixed-chicks products are lovely for any kind of curly hair.

sansucre · 10/10/2010 09:45

I think if the topic is hair, you can't help but take a person's ethnic background into consideration as that's often why their hair is the way it is!
'm Jewish, and my entire family and quite a few of my friends all have hair that's just so difficult to manage. Dry, course, thick and frizzy without an ounce of shine, not a good combination. My mother had ultra fine, frizzy curly hair and she combated this by going to the hairdresser twice a week.
When I was a kid it grew vertically and I had a giant afro until I was 6 and then she used to drab me to the hairdressers too!

Over the years I have tried everything to tame it. When I lived in Brixton I used to go to the Afro-Caribbean hairdressers and they were great but for some reason, I stopped, I think it was because my hair smelt ever so slightly singed the whole time :(

I think I've tried every product on the market. Frizz-ease just made my hair feel slightly greasy and din't tame the frizz. I was really excited to read about no-frizz and got my friend in LA to send me some but that wasn't any good and made my hair feel awful.
I've not had the Japanese straightening treatment because I colour my hair.

For me, the only thing that has come close to working is a Brazilian blow-dry. I never expected miracles and knew there was no way it would keep on my hair for 2 -3 months, indeed, I had it done on the 15th August and it looked good for less than a month, so much so that I bought some product off Ebay and have done it myself, and it looks and feels great again. So I'm happy with this compromise, especially as I know it's £20 as opposed to the £120 I paid in the first place!

I'd definitely recommend it, that is if you just want to reduce the amount of frizz. It won't straighten it massively but it will look, feel and behave better.

Addtionally I also use either Ojon or Moroccan oil treatments and they're great too, my hair always looks/behaves better afterwards.

scramwag · 11/10/2010 00:11

Because Jews (like me) often have incredibly thick and difficult to manage hair. Okay?

mathanxiety · 11/10/2010 08:15

My neighbour's Jewish mother once recounted to me the horrors of a childhood that featured thick, curly and unmanageable hair and a mother who was determined to manage it. We were sympathising together as mine is fairly untameable too, and DD3's hasn't seen a brush for years since we both abandoned the effort and adopted the Curly Girl approach.

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