Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Style and beauty

Looking for style advice? Chat all about it here. For the latest discounts on fashion and beauty, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

Would you push back the cuticles of a 10yr. old DD?

63 replies

ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 12:14

We had DHs friend and DD to stay (he's separated) she was saying that her mum does this and how dry they became. I wasShock

OP posts:
ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 16:02

RunforFun do newborns cuticles look horrendous! How completely unnecessary.

OP posts:
PixieOnaLeaf · 30/08/2010 16:02

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

FranSanDisco · 30/08/2010 16:03

Oh for goodness sake - its supposed to be a monstessori world educational institute site which give details of children's personal grooming training - a little OTT and mentions cuticles. Never mind.

sarah293 · 30/08/2010 16:06

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 16:07

The DDs mum is not a beautician she does paint her DDs nails as well. IMO nail varnish weakens the nails.

OP posts:
Autumndew · 30/08/2010 16:09

nail varnish i have no problem with. I loved it when my Sil put nail varnish on me when i was a little girl

PixieOnaLeaf · 30/08/2010 16:13

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 16:15

Yes Autumn for dressing up, but not as a rule.

OP posts:
diddl · 30/08/2010 16:21

I never have-and they have never been ragged & I ´ve never had a hangnail or any infections.

I grow my nails to make them look longer.

PixieOnaLeaf · 30/08/2010 16:22

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

muggglewump · 30/08/2010 16:29

I've never pushed DD's cuticles back but I do my own. I paint my nails a couple of times a week and DD's if she asks.

ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 16:38

But muggle doesn't it make them hard and uncomfortable?

OP posts:
sarah293 · 30/08/2010 16:40

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 16:49

Riven can you imagine clipping them??

OP posts:
sarah293 · 30/08/2010 17:02

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

BelieveInLife · 30/08/2010 17:34

You shouldn't push them back to the point that it feels uncomfortable! That is how hang nails and infections occur, because most people push them back with either fingernails or those awful metal implements. Also they should never be done dry.

It is therefore safe to push your cuticle back using a wooden or plastic cuticle stick, either when you're wet from a bath or shower and the cuticles are softened, or after using a cuticle remover or cream which you leave on and then use additional water to aid the gentle pushing back.

Nail varnish doesn't weaken the nails unless it contains formaldehyde (most brands don't these days) and as long as you use acetone free remover to remove it.

ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 18:00

Believe Why do it though? Surely they dry again and they're so delicate it just seems such a fuss for nothing. I must always choose the wrong nail varnish then!!

OP posts:
sarah293 · 30/08/2010 18:01

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

ppeatfruit · 30/08/2010 18:05

Great minds Riven!! Lol

OP posts:
diddl · 30/08/2010 18:12

"but why push them back at all? What purpose does it serve?"

Because some "fashion guru" said it´s what looks attractive?

What causes ragged cuticles, btw?

pozzled · 30/08/2010 18:15

Hmmm, there are whole other worlds out there that are just beyond my comprehension. I have never given my cuticles a thought.

Mooos · 30/08/2010 18:15

My cuticles (what a funny word) get horrid and dry and sore so I have to continually push them back. Can't remember when I started so I suppose it was a long time ago.

diddl · 30/08/2010 18:19

How does pushing them back stop them getting dry?Confused

hattymattie · 30/08/2010 18:20

I'm with you Riven - have never given cuticles a second thought - just inspected mine and both DD's - doesn't seem to be anything much to push back. If fiddling can cause infection it seems better to leave well alone!

sarah293 · 30/08/2010 18:23

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn