For background I rarely smoke cigarettes but I do smoke spliffs with tobacco (1-2 in the evening) DH smokes both.
We've been on holiday for 3 weeks and neither of us has smoked anything. DH wants to quit smoking everything since he knows any tobacco or the act of smoking anything will trigger him. He quits at least once a year and it never sticks since most of our friends smoke and his job is often stressful.
I would like for him to quit for good for his health but I don't want to give up my spliffs. I rarely drink so that is my relaxing end if the day treat. DH never discusses with me before hand he just quits and acts like a miserable bugger for a while.
I want to help him give up for good but I'm pissed that I'm forced to quit when I don't want to. I feel like I have to quit to support him but I'm not ready to give up our sharing a spliff and a chat in the evenings.