divorcing with step children

[starshine13]

I a divorcing my hisband and we have his 2 stepchildren who i adore and i love them so much its hard being apart form them, I have had all contact stopped I am not allowed to ring or wriote it breaks my heart everyday taht i cannot be them to help them through this divorce how will i tell them i love them? or do i wait till theyr in their teens? which is years off sad

Bumping for you.

I would speak to CAB

So sorry to hear that Starshine and really sad to say that as "stepparents" both you and I are legally "non-persons" regarding our stepchildren. We have no rights at all where our stepchildren are concerned.
All you can do to stay in contact with them is keep things as amicable as possible with your ex and plead to your ex's good nature.

Dreadful situation for you, I'm so sorry, no advice but yes would recommend that you keep things friendly with your XH and hope he bears in mind that if you've built up a strong relationship with his children, it is in their best interests to continue contact with you.

Very for you, it must be so hard. Do you have a good relationship with their mum? Could you write to her?

for you starshine, when my parents divorced I was a teenager so able to say I wanted to keep contact with my step-dad. Really hope you can work something out with xh or their mother.