Been a step mom 29 years and always had problems with YSD30 mainly because of her immaturity. I thought by now she’d have her own life and not still be relying on her parents for constant support. She’s never moved out of her mother’s home to gain independence and things seem to have gotten worse over the past few years since she entered into a relationship with an equally immature partner. She’s constantly seeking emotional support from DH when this boyfriend won’t step up but instead of him encouraging her to sort these things out with him he’s stepping in to play the hero. I’ve said this isn’t right and he should be leaving them to sort out their own issues otherwise how will they learn to stand on their own two feet! It’s putting a real strain on our marriage and he can’t see why even when I’ve tried to explain! Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.