Hoping for some advice please! DH and I have 2 DDs, 9 and 7. He has a DD from a previous relationship, 17. In a bit of a tricky situation. Over the years, contact has dwindled from around 40% to 1-2 nights a month. Mostly due to her age, outings with her friends etc. It’s now been 6 weeks since she has been here. She did pop in for dinner a couple weeks ago but abruptly left when DH asked her what she’d like to do after college/if he could help her search for a job or apprenticeship etc. - she got really annoyed and told him to basically keep his nose out of her life (paraphrasing - she was very rude). For full context: she has always been reluctant to talk about it and has said she wants to do nothing, so nothing sinister going on just a being teen I think! (Hope!). Whilst this is an ongoing theme we are worried about her prospects, lack of drive and qualifications at the moment. Especially since this outburst. She’s never been that rude to DH before. We haven’t heard from her since. Her little sisters are missing her terribly and don’t understand why she left abruptly. Here’s the other issue: we’re meant to be going to Spain on a family holiday in half term. It’s our first abroad holiday in a few years due to cost, and we saved hard to make sure we could bring all of the girls. We don’t know if she’s expecting to come or not. DH is of the opinion if she only wants to see her sisters when she’s getting a holiday he’d rather she didn’t come. WWYD? About her options post college and also the holiday? thanks in advance x