Dss is 19 and I am finding it difficult to live with him at the best of times. He is a lazy arrogant immature teen and I find that this stage is where the uncnditional love you have fr your own children is prbably needed most to get you through. But we get on ok-ish most of the time.
However he has been sniffing around his bf's girlfriend fr the past year, they have been far too friendly and both myself and his sister had noticed this and were concerned. So it was no great suprise that she has split up with dss's bf(they had been together for 3 years) and is now seeing dss. They are rationalising it in whatever scummy way they can but essentially there is a devastated and heartbrken young man out there as a result of their actions and insensitivity.
This strikes a particular chord with me because in my 20's my bf of 3 years did the same t me and I suffered very very badly as a consequence, had a near nervous breakdown tbh.
I am just terribly, terribly dissappointed with him and disgusted at his lack of moral fibre. I have spoken to him at lenght abut this, obviously it has gone in one ear and out the other
His father is also disgusted but says there is nthing that we can do, I suppose he is right but I am just really sad about it