I have listened and taken on board all the advice on my previous posts. Some of it wasn't easy to hear but I respect everyone's opinions.
Dh moving out isn't an option so it's either we make it work or we split. I am keen to put the work in to make things work and for us all to be happy.
So, moving forwards. It's clear sc wants more time with dad. I have suggested dh goes to see sc an extra evening during the week but it's up to him if he takes this on.
I will never stop sc coming here eow as it's his second home and where his dad is, but I can't carry on as it has been.
So I'm thinking of how it can work best and maybe I'll go out with my kids during the day so dh and sc can have the day to bond and do their own thing. Does this seem fair? I have a feeling dh is going to feel like it's causing a divide as he wants us all to blend and get on lovely. But at the moment there is upset on both sides and I feel some time apart and slowly build back up would be best.
Does this seem like a good plan to people? I don't want to cause any additional drama or pain to anyone.