Aware I'm likely to get burnt alive for this but I'm really struggling with teen DSS at the minute. Have known him since he was 6, he's now 15.
I just cannot stand it when he's here. I hate every second and can't wait for him to leave again. The mess, the smell, how inconsiderate he can be. I know it's probably just teenagers but I just hate it.
He'll piss all over the toilet seat and leave it, which my husband refuses to accept is him (miraculously only happens when he's here though, funny). His room absolutely reeks, he's either at home shouting upstairs on his game console waking other young DC up or is out and never let's you know properly whether he'll be home and needing something for tea so meal times are constantly is he, isn't he? There is just extra mess everywhere, shoes dumped right at the door where he took his feet out of them so you nearly break an ankle every time you step into the porch, bikes or scooters dumped allover the garden, cups left to go mouldy in his room, rubbish piled up in his room.
I fucking hate every part of it. When he's not here it's like I just forget he exists and the house is tidy, no ones being disgusting and weeing allover the toilet etc etc.
My husband is so soft. He will never admit that anything is an issue. The toilet thing for example is absolutely fucking gross imo but will he say anything? No. I'm left to and then I look like the nag.
Any time I say something he'll just roll his eyes (DH I mean) like if DSS can't bring plates /cups out of his room without leaving them to go rank then he shouldn't be eating up there, I don't think that's unfair?
Anyway just needed a rant because he's back here tonight and I don't even want to go home from work.