I want to see if I’m being unreasonable at all and all comments are greatly welcomed!
I have been with my partner for nearly 7 years and when I first met my step son he was just turning 2! He was always very clingy to his dad and I always tried which sometimes I loved having him and sometimes I dreaded it!
we now have a 3 year old and 9 month old together and sometimes I appreciate the times it’s just me my husband and my kids however my husband is saying he wants our stepson included in everything and wants to invite him to absolutely everything! Even my 30th meal I said don’t worry about inviting him as he’s quite rude to my family that were coming but my husband was adamant he wanted him to come.
i have no person issue with my step son I do find him a bit spoilt and he has such a better life with his mum always doing nice things so I don’t know why my husband always wants him with us.
am I unreasonable to say I sometimes want to do things without him and just our kids?
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Sky1248 · 17/03/2024 06:32
Am I being unreasonable?
3130 votes. Final results.
POLLSky1248 · 17/03/2024 06:38
Because his dad left early we have to compensate for that for rest of his life do you mean?
IncompleteSenten · 17/03/2024 06:35
You don't know why your husband always wants his child at family events?
Really?
Wow
Sky1248 · 17/03/2024 06:38
Because his dad left early we have to compensate for that for rest of his life do you mean?
Rafting2022 · 17/03/2024 06:40
Right first time!
Sky1248 · 17/03/2024 06:38
Because his dad left early we have to compensate for that for rest of his life do you mean?
Sky1248 · 17/03/2024 06:38
Because his dad left early we have to compensate for that for rest of his life do you mean?
ClutchingOurBananas · 17/03/2024 06:42
ah Open admission that the SM and the younger children must do penance for their existence.
Honestly, this attitude is ridiculous.
Rafting2022 · 17/03/2024 06:40
Right first time!
Sky1248 · 17/03/2024 06:38
Because his dad left early we have to compensate for that for rest of his life do you mean?
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Sky1248 · 17/03/2024 06:38
Because his dad left early we have to compensate for that for rest of his life do you mean?
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