is It wrong for me to say I hate co-parenting?
I’m struggling mentally now with this, we are nearly 9 years down the line and it doesn’t seem to get any easier. I have and hold a grudge against the SC mum, we never have seen eye to eye, don’t speak and I can’t stand the woman after seeing what my partner went through (court battles, access, money troubles) and I can’t drop this feeling either even though my partner begs me to.
so it’s all kicked off again- my fault making a comment about things always being last minute when the mother of SC had plenty of time to tell
My partner - SC went home and said I was rude about her mum and now she’s threatening my partner saying she will not have her around people like me.
I know she’s trying to upset me but honestly I’ve got to a point where I couldn’t care less but this then brings tension between me and my partner causing arguments (which is probably her aim too) and I don’t know if I can be bothered anymore.
I have my own daughter now so I focus alot on her and try to stay out of it all but sometimes I word vomit and it can’t be helped.
What do I do? I shouldn’t be made to stay silent all the time but yet that’s what I feel like they are doing to me.