Anyone been through this and had their DH try and compensate for it through Disney dad'ing?
It's driving me up the wall.
Two DSC, teens, have started to want to come less (they are supposed to be here 50% of the time.
From an outsider's perspective i.e. mine, I get it. They are more interested in their friends these days than going to dad's half the week. We also have young shared DC whereas mum does not so probably a more chilled out vibe at hers. It personally hasn't worried me, they haven't suggested it's anything other than just growing up and wanting to stay at 'home' which they see as their mum's.
However I appreciate from a parents perspective i.e. my husband's it must hurt and be upsetting.
However, the way he goes on trying to make up or change this is really putting a strain on me. Any time they stay it has to be all eyes on them, the whole time DSC focused, everyone supposed to stop what they are doing to just be in their presence kind of thing.
Buying expensive 'treats' all the time that we can't really afford, trips out, takeaways every time, making me feel bad if I make plans elsewhere when they decide to visit that sort of thing.
It's driving me up the wall.