Long story short , my husband has been battling for years to have a healthy relationship with his 9 year old daughter. daughters mum thrives on drama and negative situations , she has 2 other children , all different fathers . Which they don’t see their children either due to her actions. My hasband has a court order which she always breaks. And the police can not in-force it. ( which I feel is terrible ! )
My step daughter does play them both off & myself /she will tell little lies. ( most children do )
Lockdown just gone, the whole situation got really awful... resulting in my husband calling it a day due to the stress. ( but rings the school every week to see how she’s getting on)
4 months has past..
Last Friday my hasband gets a call from the school.. saying they have had to make a referral to MARU. As they don’t feel her/the other children’s needs are being meet. Also the head teacher having concerns.
Step daughter has also told a few lies about myself and my hasband.
Saying that “ she does not like me, I always get her in trouble, I shout , I swear. Which I really don’t. It’s made me feel really crap and awful.
I work in a nursery connected to a school so am always sensitive of the situation.
Should I be worrying ?
I don’t want to get into trouble because of lies / her mum poising her little mind ?
What happens now after it’s been refured to MARU .
This is the third time it’s been refured !!