Where do I start? My teenager is a good boy (17) never had any trouble. Glowing school reports. Never been rude or agreessive or caught in a bad crowd. All in all he is a joy. However my husband has a teenage boy(18) that lives with his mother and is quite problematic at home. Disrespectful. Aggressive and has some anger problems but nothing too major. He stays with us less and less nowadays. He's always been respectful towards me and can be quite pleasant. My husband has no relationship with him or my son. It seems everytime we get a call about his behavior we try to fix it and also have a nice weekend together as a family and help him buy stuff or fix the things he's broken. He won't contact my husband until my husband tries to contact him (normal for age) I think. My husband will then get depressed and is where the fun starts. He will become withdrawn and not interact with m son so my son feels nervous around him and I get mad and we stop talking and it all goes down hill. My husbands latest thing is my son sleeping until 12pm at weekends and days he's not at college. So now the house has an atmosphere AGAIN. I have told my husband I don't have a problem as I was like that as a teen but he doesn't understand and sees it as lazy. He also spends most time in his room except for meal times and going to the gym/ college. I can't keep having these feelings of anxiety and walking around on egg shells. I'm beginning to dislike my husband as this has been going on for year's.