My SD came to live with me and her father from another country. He left her mom when she was about 6/7 but always paid then divorced her mom when she was almost 15 because he wanted to marry me. She was extremely resentful and from 15-20 she hardly spoke to him and was very angry (understandably). I actively encouraged him to keep trying with her and eventually she started to come around and decided to come live and study here. She has a step sister (didn't grow up together) and they're close. I suggested she come too for support, she's 28. Husband agreed to support his daughter re food etc but she works part time for extras. But he ended up supporting her sister as well who also works p/t because she was paying me each week for a loan I made to her to pay for school. The part time job the sister has means he has to pick her up 4 nights a week between 11pm-midnight so I go to bed alone. He gets up at 6am. The job was meant to be temporary until they found something closer (it's a 20-25 minute drive away). He used to have dinner with me each night, we had our weekends together and were a very close couple. Now I eat alone each night as I get up at 5am I don't want to wait to eat with them at 9pm. He decided to join the gym so I miss that time too. My SD lies and manipulates (guilting him) if she doesn't like and of our rules like bedroom window needs to be opened each day, we need at least an hours notice for the late night pick up, she hardly does anything to help at home but does keep her room clean and washes her own clothes. He cooks 80-90% of the time, both girls get to travel when they want (always during the week). I can't have a weekend away or even go for a drink with my husband because of picking up from work. They don't even try to get a different job, there was "confusion" about what was owed from sister. I was smart enough to keep proof luckily because they were trying to get out of paying. I'm stressed, my husband is afraid to talk to her about anything and throws me under the bus each time there's a problem. I pay the mortgage as the house was mine before we married but he pays electric and food so the only thing they're costing me is my sanity and my marriage. At this stage I've told him as they're not considering me at all they can go. He's, obviously, not considering our marriage at all either as his response was that he'll go too. Am I being unreasonable?