My husband and I moved abroad and my two teen DSDs are coming to live with us for 4 months, one is already here. My husband has struggled with porn addiction in the past, and after many promises of being over it and going to marriage counselling I caught him again last night. I would say I'm pretty conservative and I feel cheated and lied to...after just 3 years of marriage I feel done, for other reasons as well.
I'd like to leave, but feel guilty that my DSDs would come here to this mess. This was supposed to be a life changing experience for them. I quit my job so he could pursue his dream, and have nothing left at home, the girls set up their schooling so they could move here for a bit, his ex rearranged her finances to make this happen...so it's not just about me.
It's all still pretty raw, but I'm not sure what to do. Should I just pretend for the next 4 months that everything is fine, live as flatmates so the girls can enjoy this experience? I'm scared of forgiving him again and just ending up in this never-ending cycle. I would appreciate your perspective...