I have been with this guy since November 2016 ,he as 4 children 3 live else were ex wife 2 own place .1 near 17 year old [ oct ] lives with him .we got married july 2018 .from the start this lad as had run of the house did what ever he wanted . is nana as said stuff about me to him to cause trouble .she as been in a mental ward 3 years before let out .is nana as spoiled him rotten he as got away with lots stuff lot as been covered up she makes ecuses up for this lad cart do no wrong . .dont know full story but was told he said is brother had abused him dont beleave a word of it . When he was about 10 and this 16 year old .lad as been to police station over abusing is sister when was little social services as said he needs supvising wirh children at all times .not sure what happened with this .he is nothing but compulsive lier ,plays victim all the time says hes had brain trainsplaint to is friends .he as only got 2 friends .very much a loner ,ive tried to get on with him .bought him head phones for play station took him to mcdonlds , Nothing works .he is also very mulipulting .very sniddy i am due to move in end aug and im bring my 2 dogs tiny chihuahuas ,he as put toe nails in there food and toast crumps in there water .made them ill .i have rung the police and Pdsa .they done nothing .i go in bath .i can hear him outside bathroom door .he sneaks up at back me when im sat there .he seems to get kick out of things .i also have a cat .brought cat up to get used to husbands cat and he kept hold its foot with hes foot so it struggled to let go .hes horrible .i really do not like him at all .i dont trust him at all .my husband as had cameras put in house as i just dont feel safe with him .been to doctors and told my doctor and husbands doctor ,they both have said throw him out .im really depressed and having panic attacks .the nana doesnt come to house no more as husband as stopped it she is very controlling .this step son wants to control everything he seems as if he wants power over everyone and just about everything .we got married july he brought his compator books to wedding ,i removed them as it was are wedding .he as to be centre of attention and he as to get what he wants .my Husband as locks on most doors in house s he pinches stuff .he also as a temper .i wouldnt trust him with any of my grandchildren he also as big thing about porn watching it for 6.7 hours each time .we have removed everything from him dueto his behaviour ,so he as no phone .no games nothing at all . Cart go on hoilday as he cart be trusted not even had honey moon .Seriously dont know what to do .feel really unhappy husband as said see what hes like at collage see if he changes .soon as I see him i have panic attacks ,sorry its long .any help or advice thank you done lot more bit I'd be here all day