Hello, my son is 11 and I have been separated from his father since before he is born. He has only rarely seen his dad as he lives abroad. I have had no relationships in his life, until a year ago when I met someone special. I am so grateful to have this second chance at a relationship and shared family - he has two slightly older sons and the children get on great. My partner and I would like to start thinking about moving in together and his children seem fine with this. However my son is adamant that he never wants to do this. He likes my DP and everyone gets on well, and we spend lots of time all together, including holidays. However, he has had me to himself his whole life, and really struggles with the concept of sharing me. I would love us to have this chance of family life and I think another adult caring for him would only be beneficial for him. Of course I don't want to do anything he is not happy with though. Has anyone else successfully worked through this situation, and any tips please? Thanks.