Had anyone moved their partner in and lost a portion of CTC to their ex
By law we have to tell CMS however his payment would go down by 42 a month but then my CTC would have 15% taken from it which works out at £130 a month. If I'm right in what iv read.
Now if it balanced what she was losing fair enough but it's way over and I don't think it's fair. I struggle as it is and still waiting for my own claim of CMS to be processed.
It's really worrying me.
I am currently a student and will be for the next 4 years by moving my partner in I'm already taking much less in student finance and would stuggle with everything to even feeding my children on a loss of 130 a month. Saying that I will already lose £50 a week in CTC him moving in.
I know people say when a partner moves in we have extra money etc but not really we will have to pay full rent full CT all bills travel for 2 children to school and dinner money or extra food for 5 children.
He has his car which he would need to keep in order to see his kids as they live 50 mins away.
However we have already worked out how much that would be monthly
Also he would have to change jobs ideally we would love him to get what he gets now but I don't think he will therefore, less money but still the same amount going from my CTC.
I love this guy I really do but while me not working I can't afford to lose that kind of money.
His ex is still caught up with him and it's all up in the air so I know if she knew about the extra payment she would take it without a second thought to my children.
He has already paid and seen his kids on a weekly basis and she's always had a problem even thou we have done everything she hs asked.
Recently she demanded more money didn't ask we review the money just demanded an extra 80 a month and money for uniforms he paid 120 for one. So he said I will have to check over my money.
She kicked off went the CMS and it's come back that on last year's tax year he has to pay 169 a month.
Know she knows this he's not allowed to see his kids. So I know she will want my money for my kids
Please I really need to know if this is true b4 we take any steps of him moving him