My DPs weekend has fallen so that it isn't on fathers' day so he will not be seeing them (his ex is unwilling to give up her weekend). He didn't get to see them on Christmas day either and only saw his son on his birthday as it was his weekend his ex was invited to his party so he got to see his mum.
His ex isn't currently speaking to me as I 'overstepped' asked them what they wanted to eat when she dropped them off for me to look after when DP wasn't there so when I asked what normally happens on FD in terms of cards, I was met with stony silence :( . I only asked as he didn't even get a card for Christmas off them.
Would me buying them cards (or helping them make cards) be considered overstepping? It's my first FD as a SM