OK, I am probably as far removed from Bridezilla as you can get......me and our OH are having a very small wedding later this year. Everything is low key - doing my own hair and make-up, dress under £100, doing flowers myself, etc, etc.
Initially my OH's son (aged 9) said point blank that he would not attend the wedding. He has now changed his mind, which is fantastic. Because of this we have had to alter our "mini-moon" plans, again, not an issue at all.
Unfortunately, my MIL (to be!) has been unwell and we are unsure if the plans of him staying in a room (one night) with his grandparent's is fair to them. I therefore asked my OH if he has a contingency plan. My stepson's 20 year old brother will be going, as will my OH's brother and wife - his aunty and uncle.
My OH has declared that he will stay in our room on our wedding night. I calmly, and I think reasonably, said that I was not happy with this arrangement. We very rarely argue about anything but he went off the deep end stating that I was being really unreasonable.
I am now second guessing myself....am I being a wicked stepmother and a nasty wife-to-be by not wanting to spoil our wedding night with having my step son in the room with us??