I spent years making my dad feel welcome. Taking him out buying him clothes cooking his favourite meals. Never thanked by my partner or the in-laws. Found out he had been horrible to my son - not his blood brother and my daughter his sister same dad my dh. 16 yrs old came over said to him you've been nasty to these 2 what's going on? Started crying to dad want to go home. Dh drops him home next minute in laws on phone dss crying saying I'm bullying him and the in laws saying they won't risk relationship with him so they've promised him they won't see me. I haven't been down and neither has my DD their granddaughter. They have rang my dh last 6 weeks to say they've arranged for dss to come down each wed but haven't bothered with my DD. I've brought it up with Hubby but he doesn't see how upset she is last 6 weeks that dss has been rang for a visit and she has been ignored. She loves her grandparents and wud love to see them but on hubbys one day off he is invited with dss and when I could drop her off I'm not welcome cause I'm a bully! Part of me says it's their loss as she's great but my heart breaks every wed when I tell her that her dad has gone to her grandparents and she hasn't been asked. Any advice?
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