teppyhen
dss is 5 and stays at our house 3 nights a week and at his dm 4 nights. For the past year he has been staying at ours extra or relatives on his dm nights.
DM and I both have babys her baby is a year old our almost a year so as you can imagine adding 2 new babys into the mix has shook dss little life up slightly.
Since dss mum had baby she has said it feels like they have not bonded and i have often heard him saying he hates the baby which is awful to hear and his dm has told me he is nasty and she cant trust him near the baby. In our house dss and the baby are best friends he is constantly playing with him singing with him and telling him how much he loves him. I have mentioned this to his mum and u think she thinks im making it up but that's how it is, never had an issue .
Past few weeks she has been texting dh saying she cant cope with dss and that he has no respect for her. Appart from suggesting that we all meet to discuss his behaviour and suggesting he stays4 nights at ours and 3 as a set routine we are stuck as to what to suggest.
dss is a lovely character and I believe he behaves like a normal 5 year old . he gets treats when good and if hes bad then thats dealt with the same way as it is at his dm.
The past few pick ups have been hurrendous dh has said today sje was crying telling him she could not take him anymore she had told dss that he wasnt to come back.
The other week he had took a toy from his brother and when dh picked him up dss went to give his dm a cuddle she pushed him away and would not cuddle him.
my dh is breaking his heart over this has anyone got any suggestions on how to sort this.
( everything is amicable everyone gets on with everyone in case that matters.).
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